It is the desire for excellence. They have to look past the individual desire for the community, families and those who are behind them.That's tough, but it also shapes them. It gives them the strength few people know. It gives the character few people know. It's a tough way to become that way, but it is powerful.
Have progressive ideas and values.
I want them to recognize that they were beneficiaries of other people. They cannot walk away for helping someone else.
The kids have to pass their individual desire for their communities and families.
The idea that you are free and should live your life as such. You possess the ability to control your path and lead the way for others. Do not forget the power change is in your hands.
They have to go out to help other people.
Judge them for what they can offer.
How lifes are transformed. How families are taken care of. What you would do for others to achieve equality, truth, generousity and compassion. Ultimately, reverence to life.